Mediation

Book Review Common Sense: Making Good Decisions in Real Estate Workouts Paperback – August 20, 2016

A useful book  for Bank workout officers, negotiators and mediators  dealing with real estate borrower/lender relationships

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I met Mark Weiss a few years back through a shared interest in Storytelling. With Mark you are never quite sure that you know everything that he does. I knew he had written a book or two  (this is his 8th I think), but I did not know about this book. I learned about it when Mark handed me a copy recently and said that he thought I might enjoy reading it. He was right. It is a quick read. The intended audience for the book is really for bank “workout” officers who will be charged with the responsibility of managing negotiations for properties that come into a bank’s portfolio as a result of a foreclosure or other circumstance. Mark has a wealth of experience in these kinds of situations. What makes this book interesting and worth a read is the wealth of knowledge contained in the book, but also the weaving in of his personal stories ( remember, he is an excellent storyteller as well) recounting tales where deals go bad, are rescued ( sometimes) and the lessons learned from both. So, while the book is truly a “handbook” or “desk-reference” for workout officers, it reads a bit like a documentary, and sometimes even as an action story! Another potential audience is anyone who, like me, mediates commercial disputes. Mark’s understanding of the workout process, is a roadmap for negotiators as well as mediators who are concerned with discovering BATNA/WATNA and the real needs and interests of both sides to these workouts.  I recommend this helpful,  quick and easy read.

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Mediation could – and should – be used to resolve many more disputes than it does. What’s holding it back?

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Mediation could – and should – be used to resolve many more disputes than it does. What’s holding it back?

At the table
Eduardo Reyes, Law Society Gazette; Karin Walker, KGW Family Law; Kenny Henderson, Covington; Annmarie Carvalho, Farrers; Georgina Squire, Rosling King; Matthew Rushton, JAMS; Karl Mackie, CEDR; Ana Bauder, CEDR; Adrian Bingham, Gordon Dadds; Zee Hussain, Simpson Millar; Jo Edwards, Forsters; Karen Baxter, Lewis Silkin http://ow.ly/cmkQ3051qqy

Change, transformation, and peace. Young Mediators Initiative (YMI)

conflict-in-youth-work-seminar-photo-2016-e1474846457878-800x400Change, transformation, and peace.
These are some of the words that the participants of the project “Mediation: a new tool for dealing with conflicts In Youth Work” stated when we asked them to define their experience during that week. http://ow.ly/qwO5304Bta9

AlunaGeorge’s take on being a mediator

alunageorge-2016AlunaGeorge’s take on being a mediator:

[Verse 2]
“There are times you’re convincible
You look at me all crazy cool
And you know that I’ll stick up for you, you
But taking sides is a foolish game
Cause in the end they won’t remove the pain
And I’m trying to give you the truth, truth
[Pre-Chorus]
You come knocking at my door
And whose gonna pick you up the floor?
Yeah whose the one whose really torn, torn
[Chorus]
I will always be your mediator
I will always be your mediator
Let me talk to him
Let me be your friend
He’s no good for you
He don’t need your help
You can trust in me
And you can thank me later”

Click link to hear “Mediator”:  http://ow.ly/Zq66304zRhr

Book Release And Inauguration of Centre For Advanced Research In Dispute Settlement (CARDS) at NLU

Book Release And Inauguration of Centre For Advanced Research In Dispute Settlement (CARDS) at NLU,Vizag on 23rd Sept.,2016 – LawOF http://ow.ly/U4Uy304zjtW